The Globe&Mail; dedicated half a page of the Report on Business section to managing your inbox today. People who work with me know that
- if you want to get ahold of me quickly, E-mail is not the way to go
- if you want a thought-out, thorough response, E-mail is the way to go
I check my E-mail twice a day – three times at most. E-mail from VIPs (my wife, my dad, clients – some, not all) takes precedence, then bills, then support requests, then other requests, then everything else.
I allow myself two working days to respond, if I decide to respond at all. I do not respond to
- informational messages
- uninteresting messages
- chit-chat & chatter
- anything that doesn’t interest me enough to respond
I don’t see it as impolite to not respond to E-mail: E-mail is by no means equivalent to a hand-written letter – it’s often more like a lengthy tweet, and I routinely ignore tweets – as I’m sure you do too.
I do respond to anything that gets through the filter: new correspondents that have genuine questions (and are real people), people that made it to my VIP list, etc. will get a response – within 48 hours, not counting Sundays ((by my grandmother’s definition: any Christian holiday is a Sunday)).
This means that if you want to get ahold of me quickly, E-mail is not the way to go: this may be frustrating to some of my colleagues sometimes, but I am usually available through several IM services, SMS, Skype or phone (if you do phone me and I don’t pick up, or if you IM me and I don’t answer, I’m probably in a meeting. Leave a message or try again later. Only VIPs are allowed to declare emergencies, and know what to do to declare one).
Should I choose to respond to your E-mail, don’t expect a novel: if a single word suffices, that’ll be it (maybe followed by a “Regards, rlc”) – after all, anything more would just take you longer to read, and would therefore waste both our time. If, however, you’ve said something really thought-provoking, or you very obviously have no clue and genuinely need help, I will sit down, get out an actual computer, and write a complete response with real sentences. Regrettably, lately, E-mails that warranted real sentences have mostly fallen into the “genuinely need help” category, which is when the nice guy in me takes over…
If your E-mail is your first communication with me, please include a means to IM you (if you have one). It’ll allow me to get back to you more efficiently – which tends to be better for both of us.
I really am a nice guy, open to communication. I just have been trying to avoid the G&M;’s “five mistakes” for a long time now.
I have no obligation to always be available – and neither do you
it is not ill-mannered to not reply to E-mail: it is ill-mannered to not invest an effort in a communication that is proportionate to the effort invested by the other party – none is proportionate to little
short E-mails are not rude: they’re efficient
urgent and important trumps important. Important trumps urgent.
The fifth pitfall, not using your inbox as a TODO list, is up for discussion: I tend to flag E-mails that I need to get back to – but I don’t see it as a TODO list (more like a “read this again sitting down” kinda thing).
A clipping of the newspaper article that prompted this is here